20 Things You Should Never Do In A Relationship

20 Things You Should Never Do In A Relationship - Naija News 247
20 Things You Should Never Do In A Relationship

Happy relationships are the building blocks of a happy life. And it’s one of our most basic desires as human beings.

20 Things You Should Never Do In A Relationship - Naija News 247
20 Things You Should Never Do In A Relationship

But finding a partner is easier said than done, especially when you’re trying to find “the one.”

Every day is a new challenge, and sometimes you don’t get it right. That’s where this article will come in handy.

It’s not always easy to know what you should do when your relationship hits a rough spot.

Here are 20 signs that you may have done something in your relationship that could be causing problems down the line.

This article covers many different things that people do in relationships that they should never do. It covers topics like cheating, lying, and even the way you treat your partner on social media. This is a big problem for many people in relationships because

Here are some things that you should never do in your relationship if you want to make it last:

  1. Don’t be too busy to talk

When you’re in a relationship, communication is always the key. You may be a busy person, but the fact is that, we always have time for who/what we want.

Remember that your significant other is a person too, with feelings and emotions, so be sure to dedicate some time just for them.

For your partner to believe you care about them, you have to make use of this tip. Never be too busy to talk.

  1. Never make your partner feel like a third wheel

Right now you may be thinking what does “feel like a third wheel” means, don’t worry, you’re about to find out.

When you hang out with your partner and his/her family, friends, or co-workers, people you also feel like you have good relationships with, but feel like your presence wouldn’t be missed, you’re the third wheel. Like being left out in the group conversation, feeling invisible within the group.

Whether you are dating or married, sometimes you can make him/her to feel like a third wheel in the relationship. Your spouse’s relatives, friends, and co-workers may come around and suddenly your partner become invisible in the gathering, conversation or left out of plans.

You’ve to be very careful and avoid this as it can ruin a relationship. “Never make each other feel like a third wheel”.

  1. Never stop dating each other!

There’s a quote that says “What the snake, because they’re watching”. You might think you need a break from your partner. But you just want to give space for external bodies that have been watching. The moment you stop dating her, you have created chance for others.

Love her like there’s someone working 24-hours to snatch her/him from you. Do you know why? Because there’s someone who always want him/her. Never stop dating each other.

  1. Never forget why you fell in love!
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One of the thing you should not do a relationship is to never forget why you fell in love in the first place.

This is the reason you are together. Remembering it, will make you keep loving your partner and keeps the relationship flowing.

  1. Never lie to each other

Lying in a relationship is like planting bomb secretly. If your partner finds the truth, the bomb will explode.

The relationship won’t be healthy anymore. If you tell a lie once then all your truth will be questionable. Never lie to your partner.

  1. Never leave when they need you

It is simply. We all believe if someone love us, they won’t leave us. When you are needed but you leave or not available, it means you do not care about your partner.

His/Her attention may be divert to those that stayed with him/her during the period. Never leave your partner when they need you most!

  1. Never blame your partner

The fact is that blaming your partner (especially for something that is not their fault) will sabotage your relationship.

You should stay out of blame. Nevertheless, nobody is perfect. Instead of blaming, a good communication can solve the problem. Never blame each other for something that is not their fault!

  1. Never keep secret

A relationship is something that requires a lot of trust, love and commitment. If you are in a relationship with someone then you need to be honest with your partner always.

You should never keep any secret as keeping secrets can be destructive to relationships.

It’s better to communicate and share your thoughts, feelings and needs with each other, rather than keep them hidden away. Never keep secrets from your partner.

  1. Never be afraid to go with the flow

Being in a relationship requires you to adapt to changes and also be flexible at times.

This is because every relationship has its ups and downs, but if you would just be able to accept the flow of it all, the experience would become much more enjoyable. Always go with the flow from your partner.

  1. Never change your them into someone they’re not

In the quest to be happy in a relationship, it’s tempting to try and change your partner into the person you think they should be.

In truth, that kind of behavior is actually more likely to ruin a relationship than enhance it. Don’t try to change your partner into someone they’re not!

  1. Never be a dictator
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It’s easy to get frustrated with your partner when they do things that you don’t appreciate.

It’s tempting to believe that if you just nudge them in the right direction, they’ll change for the better.

But no one likes being told what to do, and if you tell them what not to do, it will likely lead to resentment.

If there are issues within your relationship, address them directly and calmly so both parties can come up with a solution together. Never be a dictator in a relationship.

  1. Never Cheat

There are many reasons why people cheat on their partners. Some are looking for a new thrill and some want to get back at the partner or want to hurt them, but there are also those that do not see it as cheating.

Cheating is immoral and not an appropriate way of dealing with relationship issues. It’ll destroy your relationship. Don’t cheat on your partner!

  1. Partner’s Like and Dislike

Relationships are a lot of work, and to be successful, you have to know what your partner likes and dislikes.

The more you know about yourself and your partner, the better prepared you will be to make decisions that work for both of you. You have to know what they like or dislike.

  1. Don’t ever ask your partner to give up his or her dreams for you

We all have dreams and aspirations, but not every dream is the same. It’s important to understand that your partner’s dreams are as unique to them as their fingerprint.

So when you meet someone who wants different things out of life than you do, it can be difficult and confusing, especially if you’re really into this person or vice versa. But never ask your partner to give up his or her dreams for you, it’s sound like you’re selfish.

  1. Appreciate Everything

As the saying goes, behind every successful man is a woman. And that woman deserves to be appreciated. If you have a lady in your life that’s made an impact on your success and you want to thank her for it, then let her know how much she means to you with this card from Greeting Card Universe!

You may hear a lot of people say that men are not romantic. But if you really think about it, this is only because they have not been appreciated for their efforts. Men want to be the best lovers in your life; they just need to know what works and what doesn’t. Always appreciate your partner’s effort, whether the gift is expensive or not.

  1. Avoid Promise and Fail
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Successful relationships are not built on promises, but rather on mutual understanding.

The best partner is the one who understands you and your needs well enough to avoid making promises that he or she can’t keep.

Therefore, If you are a couple and both of you want to build a successful relationship, then make sure you avoid common pitfall like this that are likely to end your relationship.

  1. Never ask your partner what they are thinking

There is a maxim that you should never ask someone what they are thinking.

Thinking is an internal process, and thus it is impossible to know what another person thinks.

It can be argued that in certain situations asking someone “what they think” makes sense, but in general this advice holds true.

For instance, most men like football, you asking him what he’s thinking during Champions League match day may lead to an argument.

Never ask your boyfriend what he’s thinking about, especially if you know the answer is football.

  1. Don’t compare your significant other with your ex-partner

It has been a while since you’ve had to deal with your ex-partner, but there is always that nagging feeling in the back of your mind that something might go wrong.

If you have lingering feelings towards them, then it might be hard for you to trust and open up to a new partner.

The best thing to do is put all of your trust and faith into the new person in order to build a healthy relationship.

  1. Never give your partner pressure to have intercourse

No matter how long you’ve been together, it’s important that both of you are ready for s*x.

If one of you isn’t ready, then wait until the time is right.

Premature s*x can lead to a whole host of negative feelings and emotions that can ruin the relationship.

  1. Never ignore Partner’s problem

If you are in relationship, there is always two persons who reside in your life. They are your partner and yourself. If you ignore the problem of your partner then it can cause serious issues in your relationship.

Ignoring partners’ problem leads them to feel disconnected from the relationship, which can lead to feelings of resentment and unhappiness.

If your partner isn’t happy with something, try to find a way to work together so they feel heard and understood.

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Olajire Taofeek
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